Couples Therapy: Striving for Excellence

This course will cover helpful therapeutic ideas and procedures that lead to favorable outcomes in couples therapy. Couples often delay seeking therapy until their problems are dire, requiring the therapist to adopt an active, interventionist stance in order for treatment to be both viable and constructive. Among the interventions that help clients de-escalate conflict are: toning down the intensity of reactions in ways that allows for legitimate grievances to be recognized; agreeing to disagree; realizing the distinction between acknowledging and agreeing; reducing hyperbolic and inflammatory accusations; engaging in benign ignoring; and rewording criticisms as complaints and wishes.


The Therapist as Ethicist: What to Do When Professional and Humanistic Ethics Collide

This course will cover a host of ways in which, paradoxically, psychotherapists can compromise the quality of care offered to clients when they adhere to narrow definitions of professional ethics in the everyday world of clinical practice.

This course will address these topics and questions in highly practical ways to help participants be more aware of the pitfalls associated with seemingly benign ways of employing professional ethics and the gains that can be yielded in therapeutic effectiveness by prioritizing humanistic ethics of care. Case vignettes will be inserted throughout the presentation to ground research findings and theoretical ideas in a manner that renders them more clinically useful.


Disciplined Compassion: Beyond Empathy and Neutrality

This course will outline and elaborate upon “disciplined compassion” as a therapeutic stance that can be adopted by psychotherapists to enliven and optimize their work with clients. There's a performing – not just informing – dimension to putting clients in touch with underlying feelings. The therapist's care and compassion manifests itself as skill at knowing how and when to amplify versus dampening a response, prolong or foreshorten an emotional reaction, use sparse versus ample wordage, react animatedly or sedately, make a point loudly or quietly, and make eye contact or avert it. All these decisions must be coordinated as authentic expressions while the therapist rapidly processes verbal and nonverbal interactional information in the consulting room.

This course will address these topics in highly practical ways, as well as notions of authentic care; the use of humor and self-disclosure in therapy; and, how therapists who aim to be transparent and personable can still be eminently professional. As we shall see, it is quite possible to be both personable in your clinical role and highly professional – one doesn’t cancel out the other. Case vignettes will be utilized throughout the course to heighten the practicality and usability of the ideas covered.


Is It Really Beyond Normal? Misdiagnosing ADHD and Autism Spectrum Disorder

The training of mental health clinicians can predispose them to assign diagnoses to children when the behavior in question falls instead within the broad scope of normalcy (Defresne & Mottron, 2022; Merten et al., 2017). It can be exceedingly difficult to disentangle transitory disturbing reactions to stressful life events; lags in socio-emotional maturation; struggles related to mismatches in where a child is at developmentally and the cognitive and behavioral expectations placed on him or her at school; the outcome of patterns of emotional reactivity in the parent-child relationship; the manifestation of incipient difficult personality traits; a combination of all of these – and clear-cut evidence of a mental health diagnosis.